I can't believe how close Christmas is and how easily Thanksgiving is kind of put on the back shelf these days.
It seems to me that this has only been happening for around the last 10 or so years.
It's as if Thanksgiving is just a fancier Thursday dinner.
I really do love Thanksgiving!
I miss the love and excitement, via the media, for the Thanksgiving holiday.
I love Christmas, too, don't get me wrong, but each holiday needs the build up of the day-do you catch my drift?
We know Christmas is HUGE!
It should be, simply, because it is.
It's Christmas!
But...........
........................what I love the most about Thanksgiving, around here, is the excitement of Thanksgiving that we have made sure that we have instilled in our family.
Thanksgiving is a holiday!
Yes, it is!
Have I mentioned that, yet, in this blog post this evening?
I enjoy planning the menu a week or so in advance.
I love the family asking me the same questions about what's going to be on the menu for "The Feast" as they like to call it.
I like shopping for holiday ingredients that I normally don't buy.
I love the Thanksgiving decor in our home that is so traditional.
(Do you like my table?)
The orange, yellow, and cream colored pumpkins, the gourds, the fall foliage, and the trinkets that are all over our home, because that's just how I do things!
I am excited this year to put this new glass turkey salt and pepper shaker set, that my brother in law Roger bought for me the other day, on our kitchen table. He saw them and said they reminded him of the ones his mom always kept on her Thanksgiving table, which I loved, and so he bought them for me to place on ours. I was so touched. He's a pretty special guy. He knew I'd love them, of course! I do love them. I love them very much!
I am excited to prep.
I am excited to cut vegetables for the vegetable tray.
Look at how yummy our appetizers are-YUM!
I am ready to mix up casseroles and place them in my refrigerator for Thursday.
I am ready to put my ivory table cloth on our big kitchen farm table.
I am ready to have my fridge so packed the day before with goodies that I have to pick up Angelo's pizza for dinner on Wednesday night, so that I don't have to cook and dirty any more dishes.
I am exited for the anticipation of Thursday
I am excited for my families anticipation of Thursday.
The warmth of the furnace going and making our big ol' house warm & cozy.
The sun shining in our east kitchen window turning our yellow kitchen and orange-ish hue.
The Macy's Day parade on television and everyone talking about which float they love the most and why.
My helpers asking me what they can help me with and asking me twenty five times each what exact time dinner will be on the table.
The excitement of bringing in the smallest pumpkins and gourds and placing them on our table for our traditional table decor.
The baskets and dishes that I only use a couple of times of year being brought out of my buffet and china cabinets.
(Yep, that's my rooster basket)
My husband in his flannel shirt, jeans, and thick hunting socks running in and out of our home cooking the turkey in the studio's oven and showing and teaching others without even realizing it while he inadvertently passes on the tradition and makes memories with them.
The appetizers slowly disappearing.
Everything on the stove top boiling.
The pots steaming.
The food cooking.
(Look at how much food I am making and even more being cooked in our 2nd oven.)
The aroma in our home is amazing!
The casseroles baking.
The desserts chilling.
The kitchens dreamy.
My family around me.
Santa arrives in New York City to end the parade.
...............another season begins even before Thanksgiving Day Dinner begins.
I'm hustling around my kitchen.
Charlies carves the turkey with pride.
I take a deep breath and sense of calm comes over me.
It's time.
The pictures have started to be taken before the family is seated for another traditional Thanksgiving celebration begins.
We bow our heads and pray.
To be Thankful for the day and every day that we have.
Together, we are blessed.
We feel so fancy eating off of our wedding china and the family drinking from real crystal wine glasses.
The stove and oven are turned off.
The conversations begin.
We all talk about how lucky we are.
We talk about the delicious feast.
I look at my husband at the head of the table directly opposite of me.
(My chair is closest to the door)
I look on both sides of us.
The feeling of our family.
The feeling of love and being loved.
My world.
Our world.
I think of how I value the tradition of Thanksgiving, the feelings of genuine love at my table, and how I couldn't imagine it any other way.
I am thankful.
So very thankful.
Now, you tell me........
How we can skip from Halloween straight to Christmas?
How can Thanksgiving be somewhat dismissed or passed over.
It's being thankful for what we have without presents, but with the presence of friends and family.
I just don't get it.
Do you?
Being thankful on a special day of thanks for the simplicity of a family breaking bread together is worth celebrating every single day, but Thanksgiving adds the formality & tradition of it all.
Let's not forget Thanksgiving.
It's so meaningful.
Give thanks, to the day, for the people at your table.
Toodle-loo
Nikki Pugh